FATHERHOOD

I'll be honest, I am STILL learning about this topic on a daily basis. If it were a college course, sometimes I would be the Nerd of the class, while other moments I would be the student needing extra credit in order to pass the semester.

I am a Creative, an Entrepreneur, a Club head, a Dancer, and even a Hustler but once I became a Dad, I found that LIFE took on a whole new meaning. Everything I THOUGHT I WAS had to be gathered up, combined, and utilized to create a way for my daughter to live, survive and thrive and THIS, by no means, is an easy task for a dude afflicted with the "Peter Pan Syndrome...

As I embark on this journey daily, I have found that many of us men are missing out on the "secret of life" when it comes to our children. (And I am not belittling or talking down to part time or estranged Dads because I know there are many scenarios, circumstances, and situations that keep us from being where we would like to be and doing what we need to do). In fact, I can only speak for myself and my experience. Nonetheless, there is an actual "strength" that comes from raising your offspring. It comes from being there when they are first born and engaging with them when it comes to milestones like losing their first tooth, attending kindergarten, or even learning how to tie their shoes. It's a physical, mental, and spiritual strength that can only be obtained by being a "dedicated" Father. It's hard to explain but it is a power that takes you to the next "level" of manhood.

Some will argue about this theory but I can only tell you that, personally, I think, act, and perform differently which can be "chalked up" to maturity AND Fatherhood.

I encourage ALL men, whether new Daddies or seasoned Pop Pops, to get and STAY involved in their children's lives. Being a Father is more than just giving food, shelter, clothing, and money... It's about being Present and Consistent with your time and love. It's far from easy but the rewards of protecting and cultivating the greatness of your "living legacy" is more than worth trouble.

HAPPY FATHERS DAY !!!!